|The book is now a movie! Yikes.|
Just a few short weeks after I started submitting to my husband, sometime in September last year (2013), he made this statement which made my heart leap:
“I am enjoying this, whatever it is you are doing.
I am reaping all its benefits.
I wish for more married couples to experience this.”
"I want you to blog about your journey.
Write your own version of the Peacefulwife’s blog for the Philippines.
Our country is in dire need of role models to follow.
I am sick and tired too of hearing about husbands and fathers saying that the worst thing that can happen to a man is to get married and have kids.
Why do most men feel that way?
Shouldn’t we feel happy that we got married and have children?"
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Think "50 Shades of Grey". (I am hoping you did not get to read it, but for those who did, well... okay, think about it for a moment.)
|A selfie of my selfish self -2011 before God changed me.|
I saw nothing wrong
with dressing immodestly
or reading or viewing trashy stuff. :(
I was so bothered by it, that I wrote in my journal this entry:
September 4, 2013
Christian Grey. Fifty Shades of Grey. A piece of filthy trash.
It’s a book on masochism, sadism, kinky sex, dominance and submission…
Funny how I am actually just learning on being a submissive wife, and this book comes along. Truly not submissive in the Christian sense of the word.
Submissive as in, the man is the Dominant, the woman is the Submissive.
It all pertains to sex, sex, sex. F***, f***, f***.
I fear for the youth of today who will read this book. It will create a whole new era of sexually perverted, immoral people.
|We were fooling around with the camera (not with each other!) |
at this time. - 2010
Papa Joseph submitted despite the very odd circumstances he found himself in (Mary was impregnated by the power of the Holy Spirit, while they were not yet married!)
If Jesus' earthly mother submitted and His earthly father also submitted to God; it is not surprising that Jesus, the Son of God, submitted completely to His Heavenly Father, too.
Let's not desecrate the act. It was designed by God to be done ONLY within the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony (not before it, and not outside of it --
We waited till our wedding night to do "it".).
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled.
P.S. I am realizing how unpopular I am becoming by posting such unpopular thoughts, teachings and doctrines. But, I write not for myself but for God, so "bato-bato sa langit, tamaan ay wag magalit." It is far easier to shut up, but I long for every wife to be able to surrender their all to God, and so if I need to discuss and tackle contrary-to-the-world topics, then so be it. Don't just get mad at me, get convicted by the Spirit. God loves you, dear sister in Christ. He is calling you NOW. If today you hear His Voice, harden not your heart.